A Follow Up: Cock Shots

I recently (yesterday) spoke to the waiter I referred to in my Sooo.... What's up with the cock shots? post via text.  Some of you might be asking why I had continued communication with this gentleman, and you're right to wonder.

I felt the need to speak to this man, because last week he sent me another unsolicited sext message.  I actually wasn’t going to write about the experience in my blog, as I felt like it went a little too far over the line, but now I think that I have to share this information with you in order to give you a context for today's post.

Ok, last week, our infamous penis waiter texted me a video clip of, what appeared to be, him masturbating.  As promised, the first thing I did upon receiving this text was to share it with my friends.  Although, for the record, I didn't actually just forward the video.  For the most part, I just shared the news that the video had been sent to me.  Though a select few, we'll call them "the lucky ones" were given full access, and did receive the forwarded masturbation video for their viewing pleasure.  Some of them appreciated it, and some of them definitely did not.  This is probably understandable.  I have never received a video like this before, and I have to say, I really, really, really hope I don’t receive another.  My friends are likely hoping I don't as well, since, in general, they see what I see.  

My approach to this issue was to completely disengage.  There are probably a lot of things I should have said to this man right away, but I honestly just didn’t want to have to have the conversation with him and, at the same time, though he brought it on himself, I didn’t want to embarrass him.  On some level I felt like he didn’t realize how inappropriate his behavior was, and for that reason, I felt a little bad.   

Anyway, when I didn’t respond, he followed up with a text, “what do you think?” What did I think? I thought the video was incredibly vile, inappropriate and shocking.  I thought, what the fuck is wrong with you?!  Even though that's what I thought, and probably he should know my thoughts on this, I didn't wanna say it, so I didn’t respond. 

After a couple days he texted me again, “do you hate me?”  At this point, it seemed clear that I couldn’t continue to ignore the problem any longer, as it didn’t seem to be going away on its own.  I texted "Big Jack" and asked him to please stop sending me pictures and videos.  He seemed to understand, and said that he wouldn’t continue to send me sext messages.  This satisfied me.  What he said next, however, really got me thinking.  He texted, “I will take you off my picture and video text list.”

WHAT???? He has a list of people he sends dick pic’s to and video clips of him masturbating? Really??  A list?? I didn’t ask him about this, though I was tempted, because I really didn’t want to get into a discussion about it, or have him mistake my disgusted curiosity with flirty banter.  I am super curious though.  Who else has been receiving these texts?  How many people are on this "sext list?"  What is the typical response to his X-rated messages?  Has no one ever responded negatively to these before?  Do people like getting them?  Am I missing something?

This is a mystery I will probably never solve, but it has left me thinking.  What kinds of things are other people into that I am not??  Are there things that I consider inappropriate or violating that other women might enjoy?  Or even look forward to?  Are there some women out there who absolutely love getting penis pictures and masturbation videos sent them on their phones?  Have I gotten this one wrong?

Maybe this all goes back to one woman.  Is there some woman out there begging men for pictures and videos of them pleasuring themselves?  If so, who is this woman?  If you are this woman and you happen to be reading this blog, I would love to have a conversation with you.  Seriously.  Also, if you love looking at penises that much I would be happy to send you some of "the good stuff" in return for your opinion on this matter.   Ladies, let me know what you're thinking.  How do we feel about cock shots and masturbation videos?  Am I just being a prude??  I encourage feedback.  Really.